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For Judgmental People. by UntamedUnwanted For Judgmental People. by UntamedUnwanted
I love when people try to tell me how much God hates me for being bisexual. Or how dare I be 'living in sin' with my soulmate. Or working with special needs kids is a waste of an education (seriously? SERIOUSLY? I should have smacked her.). Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but you don't have to be so negative, or unkind about it. I don't remember asking for anyone's opinion on my life. But guess what? I'm going to take your opinion and turn it into something positive. Like art :)

Sara Bareilles kinda tells it like it is. I love that song. :)

And if you want to watch a boy version of the song (because guys or girls, judgmental people meet us all at some point or the other. They're lovely like that.) try this: www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdMZAe…

www.facebook.com/pages/Untamed…
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:iconcrystal-magic13:
Crystal-Magic13 Featured By Owner Aug 8, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Darn right!!!
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MetaKnight964 Featured By Owner Aug 8, 2013
While bisexuality is a sin God hates no one. And working with special needs kids a waste of an education? :facepalm: 
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MissLovelyAmanda Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
i love this, i go through rejection everyday for being bi, my bestfriend's mom wont let me even near her daughter anymore because she thinks im going to hit on her 
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haphazardmelody Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
My husband and I got some criticism for "living in sin" for a few years before we were married as well. Sigh. Can't we all just accept and not judge each other?

I love the little crown there, such a nice touch.
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DerpPaws Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2013  Student General Artist
love it!
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Husky-21 Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2013
Lovely song, amazing photo :)
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w-anderlust Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Student Writer
Whoa, I'm used to hearing about 'living in sin' and bisexual problems, and while those are awful and need to stop, I probably would have had a worse reaction to hearing that working with special needs kids is a waste of education. They are people too, and although they go through life differently, they still deserve everything anybody else gets. I probably take that harder because I plan on working with special needs people in the future. But I do really like how this looks, and Sarah Bareilles definitely tells it like it is :)
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Thanks so much for the lovely supportive comment. Working with SEN is hard, but the most rewarding job you could ask for, take it from me!
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w-anderlust Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Student Writer
Oh any time! It sounds like a great and rewarding job, even if it is hard :)
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TChoiProductions Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
If someone tries to tell you thr god hates you because of your sexual orientation, just bust out the secret weapon.

"The first of you who is without sin will be the first to raise the stone."
-Jesus Christ

Gay Christian. Problem? Didn't think so :D

Also, you're bisexual? You learn something new everyday.
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Yes, I am. I have been quite out and proud about it like yourself. :) Thank you for the words, by the way I really appreciate them. :)
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kawaii-obsesed Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I respect and admire you for being so blunt about the parts of your life people are judgemental on.  It's inspiring to see you do that, and gives me some courage to live my own life proudly.  In fact, right now I shall.  The person I fell in love with just happened to be another girl and we've been together for more than 3 years (she insists upon 5 years since that's how long she's been in love with me).  People are going to judge us once we're more open about it, but they can't touch our happiness.   
Girly Love 
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Thank you my dear. :hug: Thank you for sharing that story. It's beautiful and God bless you both. :)
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kawaii-obsesed Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Thank you for being so welcoming.  I'm about to cry here. Noes! 
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undauntedifly Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Student Writer
:hug: I know exactly what you're talking about (not so much with the special needs children, but the bisexual and living in sin part). And you referenced my favorite song! :D
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
:hug: Thank you, my dear! You're bisexual too? Good to see other bisexual poets who are on the feminist side of things. :)
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undauntedifly Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2013  Student Writer
:hug: Yes, I am bisexual. Only realized it within the past four or so years, but have always known it. And it is nice to see another bisexual poet! It helps to make one feel like your not alone.
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Rojozorra Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
I adore you. <3 Judgmental people suck, I saw a girl who straight up told me you 'can't be bi you always make a choice in the end'. I get to look at people and say I made no choice, my wife is gorgeous, and she happened to be born into a male body.

Screw people You are amazing end of story.
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
:hug: And I adore you! Thanks for the support! :)
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:iconrojozorra:
Rojozorra Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
:hug: :smooch: You will always have my support when you need it :)
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VividCaffiene Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
I'm glad you don't let people get to you :)
I'm bisexual as well and I am sure proud of it!
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
:hug: Thank you my dear!! :)
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LittleGreenPeach Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013
i love that song!
and sara bareilles.
:)
it's awesome that you don't let the haters get to you.
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
:hug: :hug:
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rini-kitsune Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Student General Artist
Oh I love that song too!!! ♥
And, gee I'm with you. For being bi, basicly... and for choosing to be
an artist instead of what my parents wished for me. What the hell, it's my life.
So I will keep telling them "hahaha you sound as if I give a damn :D "
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
:hug: I love your attitude! You're a rockstar! :)
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:iconrini-kitsune:
rini-kitsune Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2013  Student General Artist
Hahahaha xP More like the black sheep of the family and friends xD But thank you for thinking so :huggle:
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FakingMe Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
A good quote, but an unfitting concern.

They're not commanding you to do anything, they're simply hating.
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:iconuntamedunwanted:
UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Yeah, I'm not too fond of being told I'm disgusting either way. :P
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anime12violet Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I was born into royalty and have inherited the kingdom. So I guess my great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-grandfather did.
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
That's very interesting...where are you originally from?
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anime12violet Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I was being sarcastic, sorry if you misunderstood
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Shadesatran Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, some better than others depending on the viewpoint.
But no one should have to be judged and criticized by someone who is not effected/related to the situation at all.

Loved the picture =)!~
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Thank you my dear, for the very supportive comment. :)
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rwhan Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist

Watch all the debates flock out...*sighs* lets just appreciate art and not make a debate about everything. Enjoy life.

 

Anyway the idea behind this work is amazing and very positive. I like it a lot! Keep up the creativity. Nothing can beat art then such meaningful idea behind it.

 

Keep that positivity going.

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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Thank you so much for your kindness, :heart:
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rwhan Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You`re welcome!
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Krusnik03 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Aw, that's terrible! :( I think it's awful when people say things like that, but it really gets me when they try to pass off their opinions as if God agrees with them. You're great as you are, and it's nice to see that you're taking a positive attitude towards this. 

(I happen to sing that song a lot, haha.)
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Thank you so much for the loverly supportive statement as always dear! :hug:
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Krusnik03 Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You're very welcome. ^^
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confidenceAlive Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
The problem with judgmental people isn't that they're judgmental; we were designed to be judgmental beings, we need to be judgmental beings (aren't the first 40 years of childhood spent learning to make good 'judgments'?) because we have a little more understanding of choice than animals, judgment is important; without it, we would never be able to choose the best things for us.

But I don't disagree.

The problem with judgmental people isn't that they are judgmental, it's that they are unjust.

And they blame their unjustness on God ('God hates you for A, B, C,...' etc.). Not God's problem, people, because God is just and any judgment, punishment and wrath God had for humanity (theologically speaking just for a minute) he spent completely on his only kid Jesus so that we'd not have to worry about sin anymore, we could just love everybody as God loves us, believe and be counted righteous by God. </theological rant>

They're just skewed by their own imperfections in using their judgment for other people, rather than themselves. :(

Okay, I'll get off my soapbox now. Sorry for ranting and raving xD
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I agree so completely with that. :hug: Thank you for that lovely comment, especially because you explained what I was trying to convey so well. :)
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confidenceAlive Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
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Arashkigal Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Student General Artist
Lord, people like that make me not want to come out, particularly since I'm going into teaching... You're a pretty amazing person :)
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
:hug: thank you for saying that, my darling. 
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Arashkigal Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Student General Artist
You're very welcome :)
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MalleusMaleficarum88 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Living in sin is the best way to live ;)
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UntamedUnwanted Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Hahahaha! I have to agree there! :)
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MalleusMaleficarum88 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
We just have more fun!
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cheshirecat84 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013
People can be so quick to disregard others, yet know they would hate to be treated in such a way. But well done you for being a big enough person to turn that negativity into something positive.
Beautiful photo. I love that song too.
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